I was surprised one day when my son told me, "My friends think it's ridiculous that I have to come to the kitchen table and eat dinner as a family."
I was shocked. "What do you mean? How else would we eat dinner together?"
Well, their moms just put dinner on a counter and everyone takes what they want and eats it in their room or in front of the television."
"Really? I think that sounds ridiculous." Sharing a meal with my family has always been important to me. It is a fantastic way for everyone to connect. It offers a chance to talk about the day's events and learn about each other's upcoming plans. Sharing dinner with others goes beyond just eating nutritious food; it is an opportunity to learn from and about those at the table. So often in the Gospels, we hear about Jesus sharing a meal with others. A good meal is a great way to bring people together, and prayer is the best way to begin a meal. This got me thinking, could a meal be a great way to start a prayer?
Most experts agree that we should all eat a well-balanced meal. And I believe most saints would agree that our prayers should also be balanced. Our prayers should include an entree of our personal struggles and a plea for help and understanding. We should have a side order of intercessory prayers focused on others, and a tall glass of refreshing thanksgiving. A starchy side of repentance could be topped with self-awareness, reflection, and a desire to hunger for God's Will. A sweet, tasty treat of praise for God's goodness and love would be a perfect way to end the meal.
Just like a meal brings people together, so should our prayers. We should never be satisfied with grabbing our food and eating in silence. While eating, don't do all the talking. Listen to those around you. While praying, listen to God's responses. God has so much He wants to share with us. Good food and good company are the perfect way to be fed.
-Susan



 
